Open Question: Who is right in this argument?

5 February 2012, 8:23 am

I am sick and tired of my sisters wearing my clothes. "Because mom told me to!" My mother always asks if they want to wear my clothes. AND THEY AGREE. "No, because mom told us to!!" Trust me, I HEAR EVERYTHING THAT EVER HAPPENS. Mom: Come on, you can wear this, she doesn't wear it anymore Sister: Okay!! I wear all of my clothes. I wear them any chance I get to because my parents buy them for me and I appreciate it very much. I don't ask for anything, unlike my sisters. They have a full closet of clothes. I have about 25 pieces of clothing, besides my uniforms for school. So I am stuck wearing the same old things to school. But still, I appreciate them very well and don't argue. My parents are always on my sisters' side. There's no doubt. They never support me in an argument. Ever. My older sister always hits me, yells at me, and hurt me. My parents are always there. But they ignore it. But when I shout back, they yell at me and threaten me. My little sister has ALWAYS been so rude to me. She's not allowed to call anyone stupid, but when she calls me stupid, all my parents say is, "Hey, don't call her that." But when I call my older sister stupid, it is an ENTIRE lecture and screaming. When my older sister calls me stupid, or yells, or hits, hurts, what ever, my parents don't do ANYTHING. They see it, hear it, but ignore it. So today, my sisters "don't want" to wear my clothing when I'm in the room. But when I'm away, they ALWAYS agree to wear it. It upsets me. Angers me. Saddens me. My mother never asks me to wear any of my sisters clothes. I am the middle child. I always had bad luck. My whole life is a tragedy. I can't remember the last time something was good. I never ask for anything. ANYTHING!! If there's a fruit I like, I ignore it. If there is a nice shirt, I ignore it. When I'm hungry, I ignore it. My sisters ask for EVERYTHING!!! I mean, they have BOAT LOADS of CLOTHES, FOOD, LUXURY, EVERYTHING. And they barely use it. I mean, waste of money.. I only love my parents. But they don't seem to love me very much as they love the spoiled sisters. I never go anywhere. I ALWAYS offer to take care of the house, because many disasters happen when the house is left alone, and I don't want my mother to stay home and be bored. I want her to have fun. I was supposed to go to a restaurant today, for a birthday party of my older sister. But I'm staying home. As usual. For my birthday last year, there was no party. Only parties go for my sisters. I don't like wasting money. And I don't like rudeness. I was taught to be polite, and I am. With everyone............ but my sisters. Because they are not polite to me and they don't want to be. So here we go with the argument: Mom: Hey, come wear this. She barely wears it anymore (I'm in the room) Sister: Ah, no thanks mom. ^_^ Me: So you only wear my clothes when I'm not here? You only wear it when I'm away?? Sister: Um?.................(She acted as if she didn't know) Me: Don't be stupid! And don't say "um" like you don't know!! Sister: Um (My sisters ALWAYS want to make me mad. So she always does the opposite of what I say. I am known as a hacker in the family.... and I always change their passwords on all of their accounts because I'm too nice and don't damage or delete them..... ugh........) Mom: HEY! YOU CAN'T CALL HER STUPID JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO WEAR YOUR CLOTHES!! SHE'S NICE BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO!!! Me: But she only wears it when I'm not here!! It's not fair!!!!!! Mom: DON'T BE RUDE! Mom: *Whispers Loudly to Sister* She's just crazy and stupid. That's all. I am sick and tired of my parents never supporting me. For all the things that I do for them...... help them with chores, helping them on computer, fixing it, offering everything!! My sisters don't EVER do that!!! Their side of the story: Ah, she's just stupid and has no education. She is lazy and stays home all the time. She always does her homework at last minute because she "does the laundry and folds all the clothes", when really, she doesn't want to do her homework. She always stays up late at night making sure her homework is right and she's only doing that because she likes to stay up all night. She always wastes money buying food for her pets. She's the biggest money waster in the family! She's not the child I raised. She's extremely rude and always yells at her sisters. Her sisters are right to yell at her. They think that my sisters have a RIGHT to hurt me. WHO IS RIGHT??... Read More »